January 12, 2011

Love is the greatest of these


If I have all faith, so that I can move mountains. but do not have love, I am nothing.
1cor.13:2

     Loving God and others is what life is really about. No matter who you are or what you do, it comes down to whether you'll live a life of love or not. And there is a vast difference between the two. One is priceless... and one meaningless.
     Love is the most important ingredient to any meaningful relationship. It is fundamental to true significance. Your quality of life is directly tied to the amount of love flowing in you and through you to others. Thought it's often overlooked, love is infinitely more valuable than riches, fame, or honor. They will pass away, but love remains. You can be fulfilled without these, but not without love.
     These absence of love leaves a devastating void. When it is not present, your spirituality becomes superficial, your benevolent deeds self-centered, and your sacrifices insincere. In any relationship where love is not a motivation, you can expect it to feel bland and unfulfilling--of not meaningless. when asked to identify life's greatest command, Jesus summed it up this way: to love God with all you are and to love your neighbor as yourself. Will you embrace a life of love?'

*The Love dare Book: Day 1*








January 10, 2011

November 6,2008: The Beginning

  
   January 3, 2011.
    Three years ago I met this guy named, Kelvin L. Rodriguez Mattos. Automatically we became great friends. I remember that we used to say: "we are  just friends, good friends," but after a trip that  he went to Ohio for two months. I thought wrong about me. I remember  that every night we used to text for hours and  that was when I realized that I liked him and that he was a perfect candidate for me.Because he was a good listener, a good friend, he had a noble heart, intelligent and christian he loves God besides everything else. 
     At church and everybody around us knew that we liked each other, but we used to  deny it again and again. I remember as if it happened yesterday after a practice of choreography and pantomime. I remember I had to take a book he left at the church  to his house. That night I remember that I bought him a strawberry sunday from BK. Then we went outside, I was going to "leave" to my house, but we sat down  and talk about our plans for the future and we agreed on somethings.
     It was a night on November 6, 2008,  in fact God made the perfect environment, it was a beautiful night in which we sat and talked and the moon was super full and I remember saying to him "the moon is laughing look" haha. I also remember that he had wisdom teeth removed and he was swollen he looked like "kiko". That night he said to me: "I have to say something, I hope this does not ruin our friendship and blah blah blah." He says, "I like you!!!. At that moment my heart was filled with joy and smiled and  I said: I also liked you. We said let's do things slow and on God's time.
    On November 15,2008, one week after we confessed our feelings in a birthday party that we went with Monica. We sat on the grass and talk and he said: How long have we know each other? I said: almost a year. Then he ask Do you want to be my girlfriend? I said yes!!!! and we Hug. I was waiting for this question for one week now! Our first kiss was a week after the most wanted question.